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Formerly airplanes and hotels, now a travel trailer and boondocking.

12 Quiet Surprises I’ve Grown to Love About Full-Time RV Life

April 5, 2025 by solestraveling

When we first talked about doing this, my husband swore I’d hate not having a bathtub. He said I wouldn’t last a week in a tiny trailer. I reminded him I’ve always been outdoorsy—and that I’d be perfectly fine in a van down by the river, thank you very much.

And here’s the thing: I didn’t expect to love it quite this much.

Not just the big stuff, like waking up in new places or having the freedom to move whenever we want. It’s the smaller things. The ones you don’t really think about until you’re in it. Like how cozy the bed is, tucked into its little nook. Or how your brain slows down when you drink coffee outside. Or how you start measuring success in well-packed drawers and meals that don’t go to waste.

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There are things I thought I’d miss—and maybe I do sometimes—but they’ve got nothing on the surprises I didn’t see coming. The weird, wonderful details that make this whole thing feel kind of magical.

1. The White Noise of Nature (Especially Rain)

There’s nothing like the sound of rain on the trailer. On the roof, it’s a soft, steady rhythm that makes everything feel calm. On the front window, it’s a lighter pitter-patter—like background music for whatever you’re doing. I didn’t think I’d look forward to rainy days, but now they feel like a gift. A chance to catch up on a show, write, read, stare out the window and think. You slow down without feeling guilty about it. The world gets quiet, and for once, you do too.

2. Doing Less = Less to Clean

We don’t have room for endless clothes or clutter—and that’s been amazing. Cleaning the trailer takes 20 minutes, tops. Laundry’s the same. There’s just less to deal with, and because there’s less, things don’t get out of hand. I used to spend hours cleaning and still feel behind. Now? We tidy up, and we’re done. More time for the good stuff.

3. Morning Coffee Tastes Better Outside

Coffee hits different when you drink it in a camp chair with bare feet and no agenda. I used to scroll while sipping. Now I stare into the trees like I’m about to solve all of life’s problems. I never do—but it’s a peaceful five minutes before the chaos starts.

4. Cracker Barrel Parking Lots Have Their Own Charm

I know. Not where you imagine sleeping. But they’re clean, usually quiet, and come with biscuits in the morning. Plus, I never feel unsafe. There’s something oddly comforting about parking between tour buses and minivans while rocking chairs line the porch like they’re keeping watch.

5. You Get Weirdly Proud of Solving Small Problems

There’s real satisfaction in figuring out how to stop a cabinet from flying open every time you hit a bump. Or re-leveling the trailer in flip-flops. Or playing fridge-Tetris and winning. These aren’t huge accomplishments, but out here, they kind of are. They remind you you’re capable, and gives you that extra dopamine hit.

6. Smaller Fridge = Smarter Meals

With limited fridge space, we can’t overbuy or let things sit around. Meal planning has become more thoughtful—no more impulse buys that get forgotten in the back of a drawer. We plan around what we actually need and eat what we buy. Less food waste, less stress, and somehow… better meals. It’s not about the size of the kitchen. It’s about finally being intentional with what we’re eating and when.

7. You Actually Use Less Stuff Than You Think

We packed for every scenario. We’ve used… maybe half of it? Most of the “just in case” stuff stays in bins. And life goes on. Living with less isn’t just doable—it’s better. Less to manage, less to clean, less to worry about.

8. Campground “Neighbors” Are the Best Kind

People are friendly, but not in your face. There’s this unspoken respect—everyone’s doing their own thing, but still watching out for each other. A wave, a nod, a quick chat while walking the dog. It’s low-pressure community, which is exactly my speed. Sometimes you get extra lucky and make new life-long friends along the way.

9. You Start Marking Time by Sunsets, Not Deadlines

The days blur a little in the best way. We don’t count hours; we count places. We don’t schedule sunsets—they just show up. And we stop to watch. That’s become the rhythm. It makes time feel different—less like a sprint, more like something you’re meant to enjoy.

10. Every Place Leaves a Little Something With You

Even the stops that were supposed to be quick overnights have a way of sticking with you. A weird local museum. A gas station with surprisingly good tacos. A park ranger who tells you a story you keep thinking about. You collect pieces of places. You carry them with you.

11. The Bed is a Tiny, Cozy Nest—And I’m Obsessed

Our RV has a murphy bed, with a giant window behind it. It’s basically a cubby with blankets, and I love it. I thought I’d miss space. Turns out, I needed less of it. The bed is quiet and tucked away and weirdly perfect. Like sleeping in a little fort every night—except with adult pillows and nobody kicking you in the face. Oh wait, unless my daughter jumps into bed with us.

12. You Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable

Stuff breaks. Weather changes. Plans fall through. And somehow… you adjust. We’ve had moments that were chaotic or inconvenient or just plain annoying, but I’ve noticed we bounce back faster now. We don’t panic over the little things. We figure it out, laugh when we can, and move on. Turns out, getting comfortable being uncomfortable is a skill—and this lifestyle teaches it fast.

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